Journey or not?

The default way of life has almost always been to optimize for something. 

So what am I optimizing for in life? 

What am I looking for? 

What should I be looking for? 

Should I be looking for something?

Which then leads to “the” question- what is the point of life?

But, why should there be a point to life?

Have we romanticized the product of a set of complex chemical reactions a bit too much? 

It’s probably more fun to live in the romanticized view of the world where our mind has created all these elaborate societal constructs rather than in a dry world devoid of our creativity. But when it gets a bit too much, it could a good reminder to self that it’s all chemistry in the end!

P.S. It would be a good exercise to think about why everyone wants to find the point of life. Ego seems like the obvious answer but there could be more to it. Will leave that for another day though..

Soulmate

Came across this phenomenal quote today:

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master…”

― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love

How many soul mates have you met so far?

God gives us our life in the form of a random shape. Think of it like a random shaped stone. All our life, we strive to smooth out the kinks and edges in the stone. Some of us go on a completely different journey, with the goal to make the edges sharper and deadlier. But I guess, the aware ones must have always known the shape we need to become. The final goal which I think we should be striving for, is to achieve a complete sphere, the ‘SHUNYA’. I guess, that’s where the term ‘well-rounded personality’ came from. 🙂 Our stone hits and gets hit at various stages of our life, in the process, getting smoother, and sometimes making other stones smoother. The stone starts resembling a SHUNYA more and more as we progress. That’s when we step back, look at the flaws, and set out to round them. That’s where Maslow’s self-actualization theory fits in. Once we start to see a shape that resembles a SHUNYA, only then we see smaller flaws, and once they are rounded, then we set out to round the even smaller flaws.

Life

Life isn’t a race, no, not even against yourself. It’s an experience. An experience not merely to be enjoyed, but to learn, an expand.